Own it

This is to the girl who is hiding her inner most feelings. This is to the girl silently crying herself to sleep tonight. This is for the guy who’s tired of all the pointless drama. This is to whomever is not being true to themselves. I have this policy. I just say whatever rolls off my tongue. I don’t conceal my feelings and I communicate my emotions. I don’t know if anyone has ever told you lately but EVERYTHING you feel is valid. Every single emotion that crosses your mind is apart of who you are and should not be taken lightly. You are a person worth taking seriously and expressing yourself is healthy. Don’t ever allow someone to steal your light. It happens so often, people get themselves into a situation that dampens their mood. They get caught up in the social norms and forget that no one is perfect. Your flaws and imperfections are what make you unique. They make you interesting.
I want to just go sit at the park and observe random people and see what sparks their fire. Shine as bright as you can because you never know who’s life you are going to touch or make an impact on – you could save a life without even knowing it. Be passionate. Be a live and forget your worries. You only get one life and as cliche as that it, it’s true. Make the most of every single moment. You should always hold your head up high and be confident. Show the world how strong you are and own your life. You should always own your quirky little habits, your addiction to Starbucks(maybe that’s just me?), and your petty little drama with all your pals that you’ve had since college. Every single thing that happens to you is significant and you can control your own future. You should dictate your own life and not let someone have control of the wheel. Every emotion, feeling, desire, want, need – everything is valid. It is real. You are worthy of it all. You deserve happiness. You deserve success. You deserve someone willing to go the extra mile for you.
Self acceptance is a beautiful thing. If you can’t accept yourself and all your idiosyncrasies how can you expect someone else to be willing to accept them when you are struggling yourself. The first person you should learn to accept is you. If you accept yourself there is absolutely nothing that can stand in the way of your happiness. It is pivotal to your happiness that you are committed to your own happiness take charge and be yourself. Be the crazy dog person, the book worm, the flamboyant loquacious party goer, or the nice compassionate one that loves life. Be whoever and whatever you want to be in life, just own it. I hope that this reminded you that whoever you are and where ever you are in life – is exactly where you need to be at the time. If the situation is blocking your light, change it. Take control and be unapologetic about being yourself.

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3 thoughts on “Own it

  1. i really like your point of view here – “You are a person worth taking seriously and expressing yourself is healthy. Don’t ever allow someone to steal your light. It happens so often, people get themselves into a situation that dampens their mood. They get caught up in the social norms and forget that no one is perfect. Your flaws and imperfections are what make you unique. They make you interesting.”

    Cheers.

    Like

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